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With valentine’s day being today, I felt like it was right to choose this topic for today’s blog. Today we will go through 5 ways you can spice up your relationship. For my single queens, don’t let the word “relationship” in the title scare you off; you can apply this with your boo thang, a friend with benefits or you can use these tips in the near future when you do get into a relationship. For my queens who have been doing this relationship thing for a hot little minute and want to spice things up a bit, here are 5 ways how.
Spontaneous Sex
Plan a date where you and bae go to the movies and a fancy dinner or maybe ice skating and then tacos at a local bar, but right before going to get your grub on, stop at a nearby park or alley and get yall love on. I know this might be a little on the wild side but you asked for spicy, so here you go. Quickies in places where you aren’t supposed to be doing the do is fun, exciting and sexy. If you aren’t usually the PDA type, your partner will wonder what the hell got into you but I’m almost certain he will appreciate and enjoy this act of bravery.
If your dude is really shy, talk to him about doing this first, see if he is down. You guys can plan it out and pick the perfect place. Whether it’s in the car in a parking garage, randomly on the kitchen table, on the balcony of a resort in Mexico, or in the nightclub bathroom, let your inner freak loose and have a little fun. You don’t always have to plan it out. Spontaneous sex is definitely a great way to spice up a relationship, new or old.
Visit a Sex Store
Take your boo to a sex shop. Sex shops have all sorts of fun toys and things to help spice up things in the bedroom (or if you’re like me, all over the house). There are all kinds of creams, gels, sprays, and oils. You can also find movies, toys, and lingerie. You guys can make it a date and after, go get something to eat and drink. This also brings you guys closer because you guys can explore each other’s sexual fantasies and desires. After you guys eat and get a couple of drinks in yall systems, go back home and try out yall new gadgets and toys. I’m sure it will be a night you guys both won’t forget.
Car Sex
Give your king some head as he drives and then pull over and ride him like he was the car instead. He will be both amazed and quite content. Just do it randomly, as you guys are going to the grocery store, going to a family event, maybe you guys are on you all way to a place for date night. Please be careful, make sure you guys don’t crash!
Sex in Nature
Take your man to the beach, the middle of the woods, or by a beautiful lake. Be wild in nature. Let your animal side free. Set up a picnic, where you put a blanket down on the ground, have some wine, (or if you’re like me, some Henny), some fruits, whip cream and a small speaker for music. Being in nature is so peaceful and calm; it’s a perfect scenery for intimate, passionate lovemaking. The wind blowing in your hair, the sound of birds, water, the trees swaying in the cool air; your partner will be wooed by all the romance. Try not to get caught (if you’re like me, you won’t care).
Role Play
Everyone has sexual fantasies. What’s your partner’s? Is it him banging the hot college student, or the dirty housemaid, or maybe the naughty nurse. Maybe he fantasizes about having a one-night stand with the hot chick at the bar? If you aren’t sure what his fantasies are, find out and fulfill them, one by one. You can keep it simple and cheap by using what you already have at home and in your closet to create the perfect moment for your honey, or you can go all out and go to a sex shop and or costume store.
However you go about doing this, your partner will be very pleased when he sees that his lady is willing and ready to make his wildest sexual dreams come true. If you do choose to go all out, I suggest you get a wig, do your makeup, and girl make sure you put them heels on because you know these men love a woman in some sexy stilettos. Let your man see a side of you he has never seen before; make him feel like he is making love to a whole other woman. This will surely spice things up in the bedroom and help you keep your man. Why cheat when your girl can be like 6 different women?
Let the spicing begin!
As a goddess, a lioness, it is okay to be sensual. We are feminine beings; we are soft, tender and sweet, we are not only nurturers and caretakers, moms and daughters. We can get freaky once in a while and let loose our wild sides. Being in a long-term relationship is hard and sometimes things can get boring. These 5 ways are a great start to making things a little more interesting for you and bae. If you guys just met, these ways are a great way to keep your new man on his feet. Try them out and comment below with stories! We would love to hear how it went. Happy Valentine’s and I hope you have a good one this year, for those who celebrate!
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